BODY POSITIVE MOVEMENT: TREND OR FOE? | NJ AND NYC BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHER

NEW JERSEY AND NYC BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHER CATE SCAGLIONE SHARES SOME PERSONAL VIEWS ON THE BODY POSITIVE MOVEMENT 

I have never been a trendsetter, nor a trend follower. Growing up in the 1980's, when neon day-glow clothes and those jelly slippers were all the rage, I was sporting the earth tones and leather penny loafers. You'd never see me macking that satiny pro-team jacket, a boy band button, or even the Anniston cut of the 1990's. Why? Am I horribly unstylish? Gothically defiant? NO. 

I just hate being a cog in short-lived movements that go away.  

As a boudoir photographer in style and brand-conscious NYC area, I tend to notice more trends related to women than the average consumer. This means I am currently inundated with the "body-positive" campaigns. At first, I LOVVVVED it... I even launched a curvy girl boudoir photo gallery on my website, because... 

I wanted to let curvy girls know that my BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY EXPERIENCE IS FOR EVERYONE, regardless of size shape, OR EVEN AGE. It was not a strategy, but rather an invitation.

There were fears and misconceptions out there that prevented me from working with amazing, interesting women.

So many commented that they thought that my clients are all model-types. (and some ARE and some are not). But guess what? Regardless of size, about 85% suffer from body snark. You know, the self deprecating comments about one's own body, with cleverly disguised self-loathing jokes. It is not reserved for plus sized ladies. It is something I witness among ALL ladies.

In fact, the most model-esque client I ever photographed was petrified to put her body in front of a camera. SHE HAD BODY SNARK.

But suddenly, in the midst of all this PLUS SIZE hoopla in the media, I find myself wondering if I am part of a "trend". My intentions are right, but what's the message I am sending? I hate to be "The day glow jelly slipper." I wonder if the message so eloquently launched by Dove's campaign almost a decade ago has stumbled from realism + social responsibility...And into a realm of "trendy". 

Self acceptance should not JUMP THE SHARK.
It should NOT BE AN IDEA THAT goES away. 

Has the "Real Woman" pendulum swung so far as to say "REAL WOMAN = PLUS SIZE"? Are my size 2, 4, 6, 10, 14 clients NOT "REAL WOMEN", according to this movement? If Plus Size is Trendy, does a Size 8 woman become the object of Body Snark and find herself in the unacceptable "middle"? I'LL BE DAMNED.

ALL WOMEN have feelings about their body type ...and now I find myself wondering if I am part of a trend, dammit.  

SHED YOUR BODY SNARK...I WILL SHOW YOU HOW EASY.

SHED YOUR BODY SNARK...I WILL SHOW YOU HOW EASY.

As the Lingerie Addict blogger astutely commented, many of the commentary she sees on lingerie blogs are written by petite aspirational body-conscious types that jumped onto a sort of marketing bandwagon. They casually push self acceptance in one post, and body-fearing weight gain in other posts. Their proverbial slip is showing, and it's revealing "TRENDY". (Read more here.)   

FEELING GOOD IS NOT A TREND. "life as fine art" is NOT meant to be trendy. IT IS simply a mindset i want to enable. 

So here, on my website, on my blog, in my studio, I want to declare a snark-free body zone, Plus Size or Not. I hope you will join me. 


HOW TO HIRE THE RIGHT PROFESSIONAL PHOTOGRAPHER

FAMILY PHOTOGRAPHY CAN BE PRICELESS AND HERE'S WHY....

Ok Folks, this one is a bit of a tearjerker.

But it really expresses the sentiment I bring to my business so well. 

Your photographer of choice is more than (or SHOULD be more than!) than someone you hire simply to "take your pictures". Your Uncle Bob or your neighbor Mary can do that. Save the important stuff for your professional photographer. Hire us capture you, but more importantly, hire us to capture how you feel.

Not everyone is equipped to do this, and those who can, truly thrive in our industry. It's not an acquired skill, but rather an inherent quality. It is not something that comes with their new camera. It is something that comes with being both an empath and a skilled artist.

I have been a professional photographer in New Jersey for more than a decade now, and learned photography more than 20 years ago while in college. As a proud longstanding member of the Professional Photographers of America, I really wanted to share this video. 

Here, you'll find real moms who share heart-wrenching stories about their families and discuss how professional photographers helped them preserve family memories. The "pictures" are no longer pictures, but heirloom art pieces that cannot be replaced, nor cannot have a price tag. 

I shoot quite a bit of glamour and boudoir photography in New Jersey and New York City, as well as fine art, special children's photography. It doesn't matter if it's your family photos, beauty photography, or your wedding photos... There is only one TODAY.

Make sure you hire someone you can trust to preserve your present moments the way you feel.

And IF you hire the right person, they'll be a keeper. I would love to be your "keeper".

xoxo, Cate

 

NJ + NYC BOUDOIR | 15 YEARS OF ANNIVERSARY GIFTS THROUGH BOUDOIR PHOTOS

15 YEARS OF WEDDING ANNIVERSARY GIFTS BOUDOIR STYLE

With the height of wedding season here, it's always a gentle reminder to me that lots of my clients are celebrating and seeking wedding anniversary gift ideas.  As a New Jersey Boudoir Photographer, my stylist Miranda and I find ourselves super busy hosting clients in NJ + NYC for boudoir photo sessions as gift ideas for their anniversary.

If my clients have taught me anything, it's that every wedding anniversary is a chance to do something special for their love. It doesn't have to be your 1st, 5, 10th or 25th wedding anniversary to need a reason to celebrate. To help you think through your own upcoming anniversary gifts, I've compiled a wonderful list of original ideas how you can celebrate your special day. 

1st ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEA: PAPER

Paper doesn't need to be unsexy. With some elegant boudoir photos as your gift, you can create a special and upscale anniversary gift that will last a lifetime. For the ultimate paper anniversary gift,  I'd suggest a boudoir session featuring my Signature Poetic Love Story book with Italian milled Tintoretto paper, made by Queensberry. Many brides are familiar with Queensberry, as the ultimate bridal album. You can personalize the vellum overlay paper with personal messages and quotes. 

Beautiful poetic storybook display by Queensberry.

Beautiful poetic storybook display by Queensberry.

2nd Anniversary GIFT IDEA -  Cotton

There's something organically beautiful about cottony styled boudoir sessions. I'd recommend a "White Sheet" session, featuring ...YOU, a cotton sheet and your God-given beauty. 

Cotton Anniversary Gift Idea - A White Sheet Boudoir Session with LifeAsFineArt.com

Cotton Anniversary Gift Idea - A White Sheet Boudoir Session with LifeAsFineArt.com

3RD ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEA: LEATHER 

Imported Italian leather album makes a perfect anniversary gift. LifeAsFineArt.com

Imported Italian leather album makes a perfect anniversary gift. LifeAsFineArt.com

 

4th ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEA: FLOWERS

 

A growing trend this year in boudoir photography is a flowery milk bath. Sure it requires a little effort, but WOW look at the results! Imagine this on your wall! 

The milk bath...a growing trend in boudoir. LifeAsFineArt.com 

The milk bath...a growing trend in boudoir. LifeAsFineArt.com 

5th ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEAS: WOOD

A beautiful wood carved frame from the Cate Scaglione Frame Collection.

A beautiful wood carved frame from the Cate Scaglione Frame Collection.

 

6th ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEAS: CANDY

Nothing says sexy like chocolate. Skip the cliche gift chocolate heart... And create a chocolate themed anniversary, including a boudoir session dressed in chocolate, along with a chocolate leather album?

7th Anniversary GIFT IDEA: Wool 

Buy him a wooly sweater as a gift. But before you hand over that plain old dull thing, give him a boudoir image collage of YOU in it. Sweaters are a great way to style a session. If you really want to step things up, consider a wild and wooly fur coat!

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8th ANNIVERSARY GIFT: BRONZE

This beautiful Italian imported album is both sleek and sexy, making it the perfect way to celebrate a bronze anniversary.

Bronze photo album, imported from Italy. LifeAsFineArt.com   | Image courtesy of Album Epoca

Bronze photo album, imported from Italy. LifeAsFineArt.com   | Image courtesy of Album Epoca

9th ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEAS: WILLOW 

I love outdoor sessions. A beautiful willowy session outside is a fun and creative way to celebrate that willow year...

A willowy outdoor sessions makes a lovely anniversary gift for the wall.  Featured here,model  Alexandra Morgan in her early years.

A willowy outdoor sessions makes a lovely anniversary gift for the wall.  Featured here,model  Alexandra Morgan in her early years.

10th ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEAS: ALUMINUM

I bet you've never imagined ALUMINUM looking this sexy before? This is an aluminum metallic print ensconced in linen and matted in a carved mahogany frame. Perfect way to showcase your boudoir images in upscale decor. 

Aluminum Anniversary Gift idea... Aluminum print wrapped in linen. } From the Cate Scaglione Collection with Jonathan Penney.

Aluminum Anniversary Gift idea... Aluminum print wrapped in linen. } From the Cate Scaglione Collection with Jonathan Penney.

11th ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEAS: STEEL 

This imported Italian steel-engraved album is a personal and beautiful way to express yourself on your steel anniversary!

LifeAsFineArt.com | Stainless Stell Italian Imported album, image courtesy of Album Epoca.

LifeAsFineArt.com | Stainless Stell Italian Imported album, image courtesy of Album Epoca.

12th ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEA: LINEN

From my new Cate Scaglione Frame Collection, a linen-matted fine art print.

A Linen matted print is a great way to commemorate that 12th  linen anniversary. | LifeAsFineArt.com  

A Linen matted print is a great way to commemorate that 12th  linen anniversary. | LifeAsFineArt.com  

13th ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEA: LACE 

Lace is an easy one, and any gorgeous lingerie piece will suffice. But after 13 years, why not give him the gift he'd NEVER expect? Bring your laciest pretty things and I'll help you make a dream session for your 12th Anniversary.

On your 13th Lace Anniversary, Lace is an easy gift to give. But why not make it one he'd never expect? Lace-styled boudoir photo shoot.

On your 13th Lace Anniversary, Lace is an easy gift to give. But why not make it one he'd never expect? Lace-styled boudoir photo shoot.

14th ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEA: ANIMALS

I haven't done many sessions involving animals and boudoir YET (we do have one in the works so stay tuned...), but animal print is always a great way to go... (more housebroken, too!).

15th ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEA: CRYSTAL

This might seem like a hard way to surprise him... But when he pops this beautiful crystal flash drive loaded with your boudoir images into his laptop, he may just want to repeat the honeymoon!

Crystal Flash drive | LifeAsFineArt.com 

Crystal Flash drive | LifeAsFineArt.com